But when it is me she just looks and does not say anything and then starts to do her work again. and the biggest thing to be considered is that when anyone comes to the common room for cooking together, she is always pleased to meet them and is delighted. Also she tries not to look at me……it somestimes become unbearable…. It now seems to me (to the highest degree) that she just ignores me.
Also not even look at me when talking in a group. She only asks me or talk to me when she wants some work done in the kitchen… i-e to cut onions etc….may be because others are all senior than us and she is also my class mate as well and no one else. You know rotating eyes and giving cold answers sometimes (not always, as today I asked something and she gave a polite answer but she is never the first one to ask or say anything to me). She is very friendly with everyone else but when it comes to me, she just give me cold feelings. Now her attitude is what I am concerned about a little. But recently, there is a girl who came who is the closest friend of one of my friends and joined our dinner group. Until now it was this routine that me and my other friends (who also live in an appartment in the same building as mine) cook food together. It is a little complicated.I am actually living in an appartment and actually doing masters far away from home town. If you really want to know and you are getting impatient, the easiest way is: ask him/her now. If he/she doesn’t, you have got nothing to lose to begin with (means you aren’t that important to him or her anyways). The theory I have adopted: If he/ she likes you, he/she’ll care enough to tell you (one day…). It does make the analytical process a lot easier and less complicated, because there simply isn’t one. Which is precisely why I had stopped trying to understand the Martians and decipher their secret codes and hidden messages since long, long time ago. However, we, women, can’t figure out you guys either.
Women are confusing and complicated, very much indeed. Many men often lament, “Why are women so difficult to read?” “Why are they so confusing?” “Why do they send mixed signals?” “Why can’t they just say things directly?” She is genuinely interested in the things you do and cares about your feelings and moods. ġ0.) She does nice little things for you to make you happy. Most girls value their “personal space.” If she doesn’t like you, she would not let you intrude “her space.” However, if she doesn’t mind when you sit close to her or your friendly touches, that’s a good sign.ĩ.) She seems curious about your relationship or marriage status.
Ĩ.) She flirts with you and doesn’t mind friendly, gentle touches (a touch on the shoulder, hand or arm, or a brief hug). ħ.) Her jealousy glands kick in when you talk to other girls or when you mention about your ex girlfriends/wives. She will intentionally but casually disclose personal information that she wants you to know or drops “subtle” hints that she’s interested in going out with you. ĥ.) Does she find an excuse or ask you a trivia question just to talk to you? Ħ.) She rarely answers your questions with a Yes or No, because she wants you to know her deep and well.
Ĥ.) She doesn’t seem quite herself when she’s around you – can’t relax and self-conscious. ģ.) She listens attentively when she’s in a conversation with you, and she remembers everything you said. Ģ.) She makes herself available to you most of the time. 1.) She seems to appear around you or in front of you “coincidentally” a lot.